What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic form and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The effect is typically a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Complete of attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the wanted series of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a very surprising course. Everything fits into a larger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in a great advancement.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We knew it for a long period of time, naturally, however because the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always must be ensured. Caring attunement always comes initially.
Set clear limits beforehand
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise entirely okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow freely
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (mutual) borders. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an essential role again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows different techniques to use on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (happy) state of being.
Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally great, often scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to fully take pleasure in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and strategies in common. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at recovery).
Relaxation is an important part of tantric massage, however of a completely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are really exhausted), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a sort of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing impacts, however that is not an end in itself.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, do not press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves find enjoyable, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "requirements", stay away from your own problems and above all ... do not aim to force anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are disappointed when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired result. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard boundaries, set clear boundaries in advance. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. However, understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at Tantric Massage Chelsea the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate don't hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner and even vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing impact. It is possible that clogs, emotional injuries pertain to the surface area. There might be a psychological release, including physical reactions such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you learn what it is like to love yourself.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).